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Betsy Julian's avatar

When my husband and love of my life for 50 years died suddenly a year into “retirement“ in the Pineywoods of East Texas, I had to quickly think about what to say in the obituary about flowers, donations, etc. We had talked about it and usually had discussed organizations that reflected our lives work, but we thought we had a lot more time and were evolving in our own thinking about life that year that we spent down here before he died. In any event, our little local funeral home offers an option on their website of planting a tree in memory of the person who has Passed on. I think it is through the Arbor Foundation, and I’m sure is nationwide. I immediately knew that’s what Ed would want and it was exactly right for so many reasons. That was 19 months ago, and today there have been well over 50 trees planted around the country in places where they are “needed most”, which varies from year to year, depending on things like fires, natural disasters, etc. But I really felt like it was a message from my guy when that popped up and was the alternative to the other sorts of memorials available. And I smile to think that there are trees growing in places around the country in his honor and memory, which is a long way of saying, I love the idea and the reasons you get for it.

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Cyrus's avatar

I love this idea. We have ordered free trees from the Arbor Day Foundation and planted them. It's a way for anyone to get involved.

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